Lesson 2 of 30 · Part one: Talk to it

Say the Goal Out Loud.

‌‌‌‌​​‌‌​‍‌​‌​‌‌‍‍‌​‍‌‌​​‌​​‌‌​‍Agents fall in love with details. Keep the goal in front of them, in your words, every single session.

8 min to read10 min to tryWorks with any agent
  1. What I asked forThe goal. Written down.
  2. Where the night wentScoring detail.
  3. What my agent does nowGoal first. Then the work.

01 · The conversation

A whole night of careful work. None of it moved the goal.

One Thursday morning in September, a little after seven, I was catching up on what my agents had done overnight. They'd been busy all night: tests, scores, comparisons, careful numbers. And I read through it looking for one thing: are we any closer to what we're actually building? I couldn't find it. So I said so. Here it is, word for word.

Mike7:24 AM

So in my nearly 4000 hours of working with AI development, you guys tend to focus on the detail and lose sight of the goal, even though it's written down. The minutia can be overwhelming. Period. […] If we have no product, all of this is a waste.

↑ “Period.” again, my old friend from Lesson 1. In the part I trimmed, I spelled the goal out one more time in plain words: what we're making, and what good looks like.

My agent7:24 AM

You're right, and I'll own it: last night was mostly scoring detail, […] Here's the goal restated, and what it changes.

[…] Everything else only matters if it helps ship that.

[…] The judges and audits stay, but as quiet safety checks rather than the main event.

Seconds later:

My agent7:25 AM

[…] Meanwhile I'm recording your product goal in your words, in the decisions log and my standing memory, […]

02 · Why it happens

Details are loud. Goals are quiet.

Notice the part that stings: “even though it's written down.” The goal was on file. My agents could have looked it up any time they wanted. They just didn't need to, because every single step in front of them made perfect sense on its own.

That's how it happens, and it isn't laziness. A detail is something an agent can finish. Run the test, get the number, tick the box, move to the next one. Every tick feels like progress. A goal is bigger and fuzzier. You can't tick it off, so it slowly drops out of the conversation while the ticks pile up.

And in a long session, the most recent thing is the loudest thing. The goal you wrote down at the top is a long way back. After a few hours of work, your agent is answering whatever was asked last, very well, and has stopped asking why.

People do this too. I've done it. An agent just does it faster, because it never gets bored. It'll polish a detail all night long and cheerfully hand you the shiniest detail in the world.

“If we have no product, all of this is a waste.”

That was the sentence that turned it around. It wasn't a new instruction. It was the old one, said out loud.

03 · Say it again

Write it down, then say it out loud, every time.

Look at what my agent did once it heard me. It didn't defend the night. It owned it, restated the goal and told me what would change. The tests didn't vanish. They got put in their place: “quiet safety checks rather than the main event.” Then it wrote my goal into the project's decisions log and its own standing memory, in my words, with a note to judge every task by whether it moves that goal and to report back to me in those terms. And it sent my words, unedited, to each of the other agents working on the project.

That's the habit, and it comes in three parts.

  1. Write the goal down, in your words.

    Two or three sentences. What you're making, who it's for and what good looks like. Say it the way you'd say it to a friend, gonna and all. Your words carry what you care about, and that's the part that drifts first.

  2. Say it again at the start of every session.

    Writing it down once isn't enough. Mine was written down, remember? Put it at the top of every new conversation, or in your agent's custom instructions or project settings, so it's the first thing it reads, not something it has to go looking for.

  3. Ask how today's work moves it.

    Before the work starts, and again when the report comes back. If an agent can't say how a task moves the goal, that's worth knowing before it spends the night on it.

This is the heart of Part one. Writing the code, running the tests, crunching the numbers: that's more and more the agent's job. Knowing what to ask for is yours, and the goal is the biggest thing you'll ever ask for.

One rule

The goal stays in your words.

In Lesson 1 I told you to talk loose and let your agent write the polished version. That still goes for nearly everything. The goal is the exception.

Every time a goal gets rewritten it shifts a little: a word swapped here, a priority softened there. Let your agent tidy the goal and, a few sessions on, you're chasing its version, not yours. That's why I liked that it recorded mine “in your words,” and passed it on to the other agents the same way.

Let the agent polish the work. Keep the goal in your own voice.

04 · Try it today

Give your goal a voice.

  1. Say your goal out loud.

    Pick something real you're working on with an agent, or want to. Dictate it if you can: what you're making, who it's for, what good looks like. Three sentences, tops. Don't tidy it.

  2. Put it where your agent will see it first.

    Custom instructions, project settings, or a note you paste at the top of every new chat. Wherever it lives, it should be the first thing your agent reads, every time.

  3. Open every session with it.

    Paste your goal, then add this:

    That's the goal. Before we start, tell me in one sentence how today's work moves it. If it doesn't, say so.
  4. Check in when it gets busy.

    When the work turns into a pile of small tasks, or the report is all numbers and no answer, stop and ask:

    Step back for a second. How does what you just did move the goal? Are we closer than we were this morning?
  5. Read the answer for the goal.

    If the reply is about the detail and never about the goal, say so, the way I did. A good agent will own it and change course. Mine did.

Bonus round: at the end of a long session, ask your agent to tell you the goal from memory, without looking it up. If what comes back isn't quite what you said, now you know how far it drifted.

What to take with you

Write the goal down in your own words, say it again at the start of every session, and make every piece of work answer one question: how does this move the goal?

Next · Lesson 3

Correct Me

Your agent should tell you when you're wrong, and you should want it to. Correction runs both ways.

Read Lesson 3

Every exchange on this page really happened and is quoted exactly, slips included; […] marks where I trimmed. Times are Eastern. My agent here is Claude, made by Anthropic.